The Question is the Answer.

Refrigerator advice #3

Mon, 20 May 2013 17:55:00 -0400

Refrigerator advice #3

How old are you?

Mon, 20 May 2013 09:44:52 -0400

How old are you?

On structure...

Mon, 20 May 2013 09:20:17 -0400

The structure of anything is its support system allowing the thing to exist and stay in place. It is no different in a D/s relationship.

Provide a sturdy structure and you can build anything you wish around it.

Philosophically speaking...

Mon, 20 May 2013 09:18:11 -0400

It is very often the case, particularly in terms of BDSM, that what we fear is not the thing itself but rather the idea that we will be so drawn to something when it has been tried and the fear of not knowing has been removed.

Craving and fearing are two sides of the same coin and that is why being on the edge of that coin is so incredibly arousing.

"I’ll fetch a turn about the garden, pitying The pangs of barr’d affections,"

Mon, 20 May 2013 09:07:22 -0400

“I’ll fetch a turn about the garden, pitying
The pangs of barr’d affections,”

- William Shakespeare, Cymbeline

Will they scream for you?

Sun, 19 May 2013 23:34:04 -0400

Will they scream for you?

Yahoo buying tumblr for a billion dollars.

Sun, 19 May 2013 14:46:41 -0400

How long before it sucks and is crawling with ads after every post?

On apologies...

Sun, 19 May 2013 10:01:24 -0400

They should be heartfelt otherwise there’s not much point.

Philosophically speaking...

Sun, 19 May 2013 10:00:28 -0400

A good Dominant should appreciate the service of their submissive as much as their submissive does.

If she gives 110% for you, you have no excuse not to do the same.

"And I shall here abide the hourly shot Of angry eyes, not comforted to live, But that there is this..."

Sun, 19 May 2013 09:57:05 -0400

“And I shall here abide the hourly shot
Of angry eyes, not comforted to live,
But that there is this jewel in the world
That I may see again.”

- William Shakespeare, Cymbeline

Refrigerator advice #2

Sat, 18 May 2013 20:42:30 -0400

Refrigerator advice #2

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Sat, 18 May 2013 15:28:08 -0400

On change...

Sat, 18 May 2013 09:42:38 -0400

Change is inevitable of course but it it is always better to try and not repeat the same set of changes over and over.

Move forward, not in circles.

Philosophically speaking...

Sat, 18 May 2013 09:41:09 -0400

Sometimes it is hard to recognize contentedness until it is gone and you realize what you had.

"O lady, weep no more, lest I give cause To be suspected of more tenderness Than doth become a man."

Sat, 18 May 2013 09:37:19 -0400

“O lady, weep no more, lest I give cause
To be suspected of more tenderness
Than doth become a man.”

- William Shakespeare, Cymbeline

Refrigerator advice #1

Sat, 18 May 2013 00:00:00 -0400

Refrigerator advice #1

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Fri, 17 May 2013 20:05:50 -0400

On chance...

Fri, 17 May 2013 08:35:30 -0400

Chance is a funny thing especially when you consider that there are probably literally thousands of people with whom you can make a connection in this world.

It all comes down to chance. The chance to meet and explore and find out about people.

Are you someone who takes your chances or do you ignore them out of fear, or shyness, or just plain disbelief in the opportunity?

Take your chances.

Philosophically speaking...

Fri, 17 May 2013 08:31:37 -0400

Experiencing something emotionally powerful can be as frightening as it can be exciting.

Don’t be afraid to let yourself feel it, however.

"I have a kind soul that would give you thanks And knows not how to do it but with tears."

Fri, 17 May 2013 08:25:40 -0400

“I have a kind soul that would give you thanks
And knows not how to do it but with tears.”

- William Shakespeare, The Life and Death of King John